Never Alone (2)

Tonight we got word that our friend and colleague, Kevin, died from the injuries he sustained in yesterday’s car accident.  Kevin is with Jesus.  Nothing new there…  He always was with Jesus…. because… Kevin belongs, body and soul, in life and in death to his faithful Savior…. and so do Shari and the kids… and so do we.

My hope is for the day that will come when  “…God will wipe every tear from our eyes.  There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain…”  Revelation 21:4.

That hope, for those who belong to Jesus, is today’s gift.

Never Alone

I can’t remember how it all came to be, when I first tried it.  It’s been a few years ago that I used this technique with my cross country teams.

Technique… that makes it sound like something I planned, something that I gave a lot of thought to in order to help make my runners, well, better runners… and better people.  Not so.

You see, on my middle school cross country team, it usually works out that we have some really fast runners, some really slow runners and some in the middle. When we run long distance workouts, it works out that the fast ones finish waaaay ahead of the slow ones.

One day, I must have said to the fast ones when they finished, to jog back out to the last ones and run in with them. “Nobody runs alone,” I said.  From that day on that has been my mantra for workouts like that.  The fast go back to help the last.  Nobody runs alone.

Today, at the school where I teach, we received word that a friend and former colleague was in a serious automobile accident.  As I type this, Kevin is in critical condition with severe head trauma.  Age 37, married with three little kids, Kevin is clinging to life.  The news hit us hard.  Kevin, is too young, is too needed here on earth to be called home to Jesus, just yet.  So we prayed…

Our principal, one of Kevin’s closest friends, gathered the middle schoolers in the commons so we could pray together.  He struggled.  It was hard for him to get the words out.  They came slowly and clearly, wet from his tears.  He led us in praying for healing, in praying for Kevin’s family.

And there they all sat.  Two hundred plus middle schoolers, nary a one knew who this Kevin guy was, but still praying because a handful of us who did were suffering.  When just a part of  the body suffers, the whole body suffers…

We had cross country practice again today.  It was one of those distance workouts.  The fast ones took off, zipped around the two and quarter mile course finishing waaaaay ahead of the slow ones. After about half of the team was in and after a little bit of recovery time, the first runners gradually started jogging back along the course, and I watched, amazed.  The first, the fast, picked up and jogged in with their slower teammates.  Without me saying a word, they came alongside them and helped them finish the course.

I don’t know where Kevin’s course will lead him.  I do know that many people have already come alongside Kevin’s family and friends – praying, caring, supporting, helping, encouraging, loving…  praying for peace, strength, courage and healing.  God is showing his presence through all these good people.  God is showing Kevin and his family and the rest of us that nobody runs alone… never alone… never… never alone… never…

From the Train… Sister Anne

Two days ago, the day before we got on the train to visit family, I got a request. Could I help move a friend’s kid and his family? The kid got a new job in town and needed to move his stuff – no piano, no appliances, no sleeper sofa and a truck big enough for the job. All magic words for an ex-furniture mover who is maybe getting too old for this kind of work.

And work it was on the hottest day of the summer so far. I left the house in the morning before eight and got home in the afternoon at six. In between we lifted couches and boxes and toys and stuff from the shed. I packed the truck and at the end of the day, it all fit in and got trucked to the day’s destination. We sweated a lot, laughed some and accomplished a good thing.  

It felt good to know that this old guy can still lift a box, get a dresser out of the house and pack truck. It felt good to use those gifts – jokingly, I call my spiritual gifts – to lend a hand and provide a lift. I was thanked profusely, over and over again.

Right now I’m getting to the end of my 18 hour train ride. It’s always interesting the people you encounter and now I’m wondering about Sister Anne and her handicapped charge, Sam. They got on the train sometime in the middle of the night and sat right behind us. I knew this from  listening to Sam’s load guttural complaints as he settled in.

I think (and I’m mostly guessing here) that Sister Anne was taking Sam, at least part-way, back to his group home somewhere in New York. They parted ways in Albany, but Anne, it seemed, was taking care of the details that would get Sam safely to his final destination… and I hope he made it OK.

Sister Anne? I don’t know much about her, really. I’m quite sure she hasn’t had to load a moving truck very often or coax a couch around a corner. I’m pretty sure her spiritual gifts don’t include moving furniture. What became quite evident to me, without even meeting her, was her spiritual gifts of patience, kindness, compassion, perseverance, love…

I didn’t hear Sam utter a word of thanks as we parted. I don’t know if Sister Anne felt appreciated for what she had done for him. I do believe that in Anne’s world, for this short train ride, Sam was one of those ‘least of these’ we hear about….and whether she realizes it or not, what she did for Sam today, she did for Jesus.

From the Train

The disappointing news at first was that the train we were waiting for was an hour and a half late. This meant getting on it at nearly 2 AM after an already long and strenuous day. However, being a “ glass-half-full” guy when it comes to riding the train, I knew we’d be okay. Trains can make up time, you know.

The good part of getting on the train in the wee hours of the morning is that it doesn’t take much to fall asleep. Which I did and and slept pretty much until Cleveland and the sounds of the neighbor’s cell phone whistle woke me. The good news here is that I thought it was my phone, but it wasn’t, sparing me the scorn of my fellow trainers.

No matter when one gets on the train, it’s important to get your bearings…. Where’s my seat, where’s the bathroom and where’s the cafe car?

Our seats were assigned when we got on the train. Fine seats. Good viewing. An acre and a half of space, compared to that last airplane ride.

The bathrooms are in the normal spots. The ‘occupied’ lights are working. From where I’m sitting, it seems that on this train one of the rooms is for more long term endeavors and the other is more ‘express lane-ish.’ And please… leave them cleaner than when you found them.

…and who is that guy? He’s the one sitting 1-2-3 seats ahead of us. He kinda tall, wearing ‘cool’ sunglasses. Several people have stopped by to chat with him… No autograph requests yet… People seem to be leaving him alone for now… NBA? Baseball player? Rock star? Star of stage anrd screen? 

The sister and the sistahs…. In the seat in front of us are two sisters, little girls, traveling with gramma. Cute! The little one began to wander a bit when gramma left for the rest room. Immediately, the train community informed her big sistah. The little one was corralled. All was well… It takes a village…

In the seats behind us a sister, a nun, is traveling with a developmentally disabled man. I’m not sure what the story is there. Apparently, she is part of the young man’s village.

And then there’s the Amtrak coffee challenge… Would I be able to coax a free cup of coffee out of the cafe car attendant with my umpteen year old Amtrak mug, purchased with a ‘bottomless’ coffee guarantee? Well, this morning I am here to tell you that I’m a ‘mug-mostly-full’ kinda guy. Good news. Good coffee. Excellent price. 

Oh, and the other good news is that our train did make up time and picked us up only 26 minutes late, pretty much on time by Amtrak standards. No complaints here.

The SIBS Half-Marathon…Walk

img_1031I know that by now most of you are wondering how it went, especially after living through all of the pre-event hype.  I’m talking about the first-ever “SIBS Half-Marathon… Walk.”  It all started with one sister mentioning something about wanting to walk a 1/2 marathon.  The second sister mentioned that that sounded good to her, let’s plan on June when she’s in Michigan.  The brother, me, not wanting to get shown up by his younger sisters, joined the siblings making a group of three for today’s 13.1 mile walk.

So how did it go…?  It went great!  We (the sisters) started out with enough gear to hike the Appalachian Trail.. so we had everything we needed.  The route we traveled was carefully laid out to provide interesting sites along the way to enlighten us, including a stop at the DQ.  Conversation pretty much filled the entire 5 1/4 hours we were out.  There were lots of laughs.

So today’s gift – a great time with my sisters, getting reconnected.
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Feelin’ The Vibe

IMG_8340Yesterday, Saturday, was the first really springy day we’ve had in awhile.  Certainly the first since the cold, rainy,  snowy spring vacation just a week ago.  Sunny, warm – perfect.

It was one of those ‘firsts’ days when I wanted to mow my lawn for the first time, wash the car for the first time since the last time in winter at the quarter car wash place.  Perhaps I could wash the windows, weed the flower bed, rake the fall leftovers from the yard.  Maybe trim a tree, apply fertilizer, clean out the garage, fill up the bird feeders…. chat with the neighbor.

Which I did, chat with the neighbor, that is.  I expressed my thoughts on the day, to which he replied, “Yeh, I’m feelin’ that vibe, too.”  Now, he’s considerably younger than I am, but when it comes to the first nice Saturday of spring, we are speakin’ the same ‘vibeful’ language.

 

Spring Break… So far

Spring vacation started last Thursday afternoon. It was a good start. 

Since then, I made progress on the eternal basement remodel project. (Next steps… find a friend with a pickup truck, get some drywall and hang it.) 

Then, since it’s Michigan, there was a day of snow.  

I also had opportunity to take my camera for a walk and found some interesting things. 

Check out a few of the pictures…

     
   

    
   

The Gift and the Giver

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Today’s gift….

God, the giver, gave his only Son, Immanuel, God with Us… 

“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” John 3:16

This is what we celebrate at Christmas… 

God the giver, God the gift…  

…every day’s gift.

A Gift for the Sheppards (4)

This is the final installment of a story I wrote long ago. It was first published in “The Christian Home and School,” a publication of Christian Schools International.

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The Monday before Christmas, Christmas Eve

All day the Sheppard sisters had been battling traffic and crowds of last minute shoppers. Now as evening approached, the wash still needed to be done. “Why dontcha fix this?!” Nell snapped at Doris and flung a shabby sock in her direction. Nell had found a couple of large red and white Christmas stockings which the sisters had hung on the mantle every Christmas Eve. The stitching around the black Santa’s sleigh with the name “Doris” embroidered on it was coming undone as a result of its annual encounter with the Sheppards’ washing machine. It was Christmas Eve and Nell felt pressured to get the tattered stockings loaded and hung on the mantle over the dormant fireplace. The stockings were about the only bit of Christmas tradition the tired old sisters had left.

Nell had been getting grouchier as Christmas day inched closer. Today’s shopping excursion had just about put her over the edge. Doris remembered the days when Christmas shopping was accomplished by walking the block-and-a-half to Casey’s Corner Store. Of course, Casey’s had closed years ago when his son, Al, finally retired. He practically gave the building away to a group who used it for a church. But like everything else religious in Nell and Doris Sheppard’s lives, the congregation scattered and the building on the corner eventually deteriorated. It went from a place of worship… to a video store… to a derelict apartment building… to an empty lot.

Even though they were working on catching up on the laundry that they do so religiously on Monday’s, neither Nell nor Doris had forgotten about their curious neighbors. It had not gone unnoticed by them that every candle on the rag wreath, except the big white one in the center, were ‘lit’ with splotches of yellow.

“Why don’t they close their curtains, anyway?” By now, it was dark outside. Nell, bad mood and all, was back on the lookout while working on a basket of wool socks. “They’re just inviting anyone who wants, to take a peak,” she said. Then accepting their invitation, said, “Look over there, Doris.” Doris obediently looked up from re-stitching Santa’s sleigh. “There’s somethin’ glowing over there,” Nell whispered as if the Davidsons could hear her.

“Fire!” Doris put her hands over her mouth.

“Nonsense.” Nell stated flatly. “They’ve just got some candles or the fire place burning. I can see shadows…” She paused, and took a deep breath. “It looks kinda spooky over there.” Radiating through the window’s rag wreath, a curious aura of light reached across the snowy street toward the sisters. Doris suddenly envied everything about those people across the street – their friends, their fireplace and even the whatever-it-was in their window.

Nell broke in with, “Maybe they’re part of some kind of weird cult…?” Her voice trailed off.

“Stop it, Nell! You’re scaring me!” Nell was scaring herself, so she dropped the subject and went back to her socks.

That night, the Monday before Christmas, Christmas Eve, while the Sheppard sisters washed, fixed and folded their socks, they got their holiday gift. It came to them when the transformer on the electric pole in front of the next-door neighbor’s house blew up.

Like the CRACK!! of thunder in a June thunderstorm, the sound ricocheted along the canyon of houses on Hillside Avenue. When it crashed into the Sheppards’ living room they jumped simultaneously, like two kids in the backseat of a school bus zipping down a bumpy road. The socks in their hands went flying. The lights in the house flashed and went out.

Without saying a word, they sat in the blackness, hearts pounding. For the first time in an age, they didn’t know what was going on outside. For the first time in her lifetime, Nell was speechless. For the first time, Doris realized that she yearned for something to fill the lonely void inside her.

After some time, a loud pounding on the front door made them jump again.

“Ohhhh boooy!” Doris was the first to break the silence. “What’s that now?” she whispered. Slowly, Nell fumbled through the darkness toward the front door with Doris cowering behind her. Together they peeked through the curtain on the window next to the door. They spied someone bundled up standing on the front porch with a flashlight. Cautiously and against her better judgement, Nell opened the door a crack with Doris craning her neck to see around her sister.

The wide-eyed, worried looks that greeted the bundled up woman on the porch prompted her to reassure them, “Don’t be afraid. It’s me, Ruth, your neighbor, from across the street.” The sisters greeted her with silence. “Looks like the power’s going to be out for a while,” she continued with a warm disarming smile. “My husband just finished baking some bread right before the it went out and we were wondering if ….” Doris straightened up a stood next to Nell in the doorway. “… you’d like to come over and share the bread and cozy, warm fireplace with us. I’m on my way to get some of the other neighbors, too.” The sisters glanced at each other and nodded.

“Good!” Ruth said. “We’re right there across the street.” She pointed in the direction of her house – as if Doris and Nell didn’t already know. “Just look for the strips of cloth in the window.” She grinned and rolled her eyes. “It’s supposed to be an advent wreath.” We have a real one, too, with real candles. We put it on the porch – to light the way.” She turned to go, then turned back. “You can help us light the Christ candle when you get there.” Ruth winked. “It’s Christmas Eve, you know.”

“Uh-huh…,” said Nell, having no clue what the neighbor was talking about. The sisters wondered more than ever about their curious neighbors, what with rags and wreaths and bread and a Christ candle, and all. “Uh – well sure,” Nell fumbled for words. “After we take care of our socks and –“

”Forget about the socks!” Doris insisted. “We’re going now!” She grabbed their coats off the hooks by the door, jammed Nell’s into her hands and and said, “Let’s go!” And…. off they marched across the dark street looking for strips of cloth and a light to brighten up their dark world.